Its time to break out the trusty notepad. The best thing is to speak to a therapist. Understand your needs and desires. If you have any questions or comments, feel free to contact us, Silverstream House 45 Fitzroy Street Fitzrovia London W1T 6EB, Phone: (020) 3411-1138 Im not sure theres a right and a wrong choice if you truly love two people equally. Are you still thinking about how to pick between two guys? Some people need more social time than others. You are in a moral dilemma because you cant choose between two lovers. When I first started college, I had to choose between my (now-ex) girlfriend and this other girl, who was the first person who had ever shown any sexual interest in me. Is there anything important on which you have very different opinions? You can either play question game with two participants at a time, or play within a group and slowly eliminate players until only one remains. The first is attraction, the second is romantic love and then there is sex drive. Limited-Time Deal on Marriage Course. This or that questions are prompts that ask participants to choose one of two options. And if this whole thing is affecting your mental well-being, it is a significant thing that needs to be resolved. When your partner doesnt live up to your expectations, what can you do? Guilt is a feeling that you've done (or thought) something wrong and a need to improve things. But seriously, it might well be that theres a cute guy at your work youve been getting to know, but youve also been spending more time with a friend of a good friend. However, Jorge finds Paul to be socially awkward and low energy. Jorge is drawn to Eriks adventurous spirit and unpredictability. Your 2nd choice is to be grateful for it. Look to your heart and soul first, rather than looking to your head first, when choosing. Whatever the case, it is not a sin or an uncanny thing. Which one looks comfortable and closer to a good and uneventful life? Instead, focus on enjoying each individual relationship for what it is and cherish the moments spent with both women equally. She spends her free time hiking, exploring, eating vegan tapas and volunteering for a local dog shelter. Her personality: A woman with a great personality is always a winner in a mans eyes. Here are some questions to ask yourself: Do you share similar values and beliefs? These types of questions will give us insight into what your personality is really like. Instead of thinking, I like two guys, what should I do let their actions speak.